I completely understand your view hun which is why I am opposed to them turning up to a main meet. I think people should be given the opportunity to go on it if they like but that shouldn't be to the detriment of those who don't want to feature either. As I say, I have two paws in both camps at the moment but I 100% agree with where you are coming from.

I don't like the development of getting younger furs to invite them to meets. When did that happen? Indeed I think the younger furs is where the problems will be.