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lupestripe ([personal profile] lupestripe) wrote2009-12-06 11:40 pm

Reading And Experiencing...

God, I really don't fit in, do I?

[identity profile] rustyfox.livejournal.com 2009-12-06 11:42 pm (UTC)(link)
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Where don't you fit in?

[identity profile] bloodwolves.livejournal.com 2009-12-06 11:43 pm (UTC)(link)
Hon,I'm a misfit toy.

[identity profile] puddy-tat-uk.livejournal.com 2009-12-06 11:44 pm (UTC)(link)
fit into what, or whom?

if 'fitting in' always that great?

"I wouldn't want to belong to any club that would have me as a member"

- Groucho Marx

[identity profile] silent-o.livejournal.com 2009-12-07 12:02 am (UTC)(link)
You fit in fine with the rest of us irredeemable furfags. :P

*huggles*

[identity profile] snowfields.livejournal.com 2009-12-07 01:10 am (UTC)(link)
Yeah, you do. You just don't feel like you do. Rusty raises a valid point, look at the people that at least call you an acquaintance; there must be some commonality between you or they'd not bother, you therefore fit in with your peer group.

With that said...

It's easy to feel unhappy with your lot. You've had some setbacks recently and are feeling like you're trapped in a rut. I'd put it to you that you don't belong there. It's the dissatisfaction with the down side that is colouring your outlook generally.

But hey, what do I know? I'm just a fox :)

[identity profile] jonnywoof.livejournal.com 2009-12-07 03:17 am (UTC)(link)
Maybe you're trying too hard to fit in? Or thinking about it too much?

[identity profile] bloodwolves.livejournal.com 2009-12-07 03:41 am (UTC)(link)
yes you do fit in you're one of us silly critters,hun.

[identity profile] hukkax.livejournal.com 2009-12-07 04:26 am (UTC)(link)
If this is about the lack of visible empathy, I'd wager a guess it might be because most of the empathetic people are also shy. I can only speak for myself, but I'm often too shy to post, especially if the message is only something to the tune of "I empathize".

[identity profile] godzuki.livejournal.com 2009-12-07 08:06 am (UTC)(link)
I think its more you feeling you dont fit in than not actually fitting in...you need to learn to fight your own demons.

[identity profile] snowtiger-uk.livejournal.com 2009-12-07 09:29 am (UTC)(link)
You wont fit it with the normal folk as perhaps you and most of us furries arent normal, but be happy to be wierd,screwball,furry, whatever you like. Most of all, be happy with who/what you are, this is the most important part. I am happy and I fully accept who/what I am, if the rest of the world thinks that I am odd, well screw them I dont care.

[identity profile] snowtiger-uk.livejournal.com 2009-12-07 09:33 am (UTC)(link)
In fact you do fit in, you will have good furiends that accept you for who/what you are.

[identity profile] snowtiger-uk.livejournal.com 2009-12-07 04:38 pm (UTC)(link)
"I feel I let myself down a lot though by being who I am."
I understand how that feels in a way, just being a furfag kinda screws things up for me, I doubt if I will ever make a male pregnant no matter how hard I try, So I will never have kidz. Never mind though there are benefits to a male on male relationship.