Riding Solo

The problem with being with a couple for any length of time is that you get the distinct impression that you are getting in the way. At home, I can only spend a few hours alone with a couple before I start to feel uncomfortable. Here, it has taken four days. In Singapore it wasn't a problem because my friend and his girlfriend were working at differing times, meaning I spent my time with either one of them. However, since Saturday, it has been the three of us and I get the feeling that I am starting to become a nuisance. Today, they spent a lot of the day hugging, cuddling, holding hands and kissing. They spent all of their time walking together, allowing me to lag behind. Everything she did, he did, and so, essentially, I was left to my own devices whilst still being with them. I don't necessarily think this is intentional but tonight, when they opted to go for dinner, I just made my excuses and headed back to the hotel.

It's a minor thing and one that will disappear as soon as I get back to Singapore on Friday as I will just do things on my own, but it has cast a bit of a shadow on things. I know I shouldn't worry as he was massively excited about seeing me and he is the reason why I am experiencing all this cool stuff. I don't want to say anything either for fear of ruining the friendship, particularly as his girlfriend is moving back to London from Singapore as of July 7 and this is the last chance he will get to see her for a while (after the three weeks he will be spending in London until July 27). Saturday is her last day in Singapore and I don't want to get in the way, despite being assured it's fine.

( This Is The Day Today... )

Tomorrow is my last day in Indonesia before I move back to Singapore for two days. If any fur is interested in joining me on Friday evening and/or during the day on Saturday then let me know. I may be going to the swamp or Sentosa on Saturday and it would be great to spend some time together :-)

P.S. If anyone knows any furs in Bangkok, I will be there Monday 6 to Wednesday 8 July. I'll be on my own so it will be good to meet up with a few of them :-)

P.P.S. There are a lot of horses pulling carts out here, many with beautifully crafted bridles, reins and bits. It has reawakened my desires to be a pony boy and then some...

Riding Solo

The problem with being with a couple for any length of time is that you get the distinct impression that you are getting in the way. At home, I can only spend a few hours alone with a couple before I start to feel uncomfortable. Here, it has taken four days. In Singapore it wasn't a problem because my friend and his girlfriend were working at differing times, meaning I spent my time with either one of them. However, since Saturday, it has been the three of us and I get the feeling that I am starting to become a nuisance. Today, they spent a lot of the day hugging, cuddling, holding hands and kissing. They spent all of their time walking together, allowing me to lag behind. Everything she did, he did, and so, essentially, I was left to my own devices whilst still being with them. I don't necessarily think this is intentional but tonight, when they opted to go for dinner, I just made my excuses and headed back to the hotel.

It's a minor thing and one that will disappear as soon as I get back to Singapore on Friday as I will just do things on my own, but it has cast a bit of a shadow on things. I know I shouldn't worry as he was massively excited about seeing me and he is the reason why I am experiencing all this cool stuff. I don't want to say anything either for fear of ruining the friendship, particularly as his girlfriend is moving back to London from Singapore as of July 7 and this is the last chance he will get to see her for a while (after the three weeks he will be spending in London until July 27). Saturday is her last day in Singapore and I don't want to get in the way, despite being assured it's fine.

( This Is The Day Today... )

Tomorrow is my last day in Indonesia before I move back to Singapore for two days. If any fur is interested in joining me on Friday evening and/or during the day on Saturday then let me know. I may be going to the swamp or Sentosa on Saturday and it would be great to spend some time together :-)

P.S. If anyone knows any furs in Bangkok, I will be there Monday 6 to Wednesday 8 July. I'll be on my own so it will be good to meet up with a few of them :-)

P.P.S. There are a lot of horses pulling carts out here, many with beautifully crafted bridles, reins and bits. It has reawakened my desires to be a pony boy and then some...