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If you are going to say things behind my back, please ensure you say them in the right conversation window. If you send your comments to me, it's not that clever.

*this incident relates to work by the way, not furry.

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Date: 2011-11-14 10:35 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] silent-o.livejournal.com
Wow. Jerks.

Date: 2011-11-15 08:19 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] lupestripe.livejournal.com

I can understand his point but it doesn't help that he is one of the weaker employees at the company.

Date: 2011-11-14 11:36 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] calydor.livejournal.com
Having just been through something similar I can only say that yes, if you are saying something about other people make absolutely sure you're saying it to the right person.

Or, y'know, remember what you were told as a kid: If you have nothing nice to say, shut the hell up.

Date: 2011-11-14 05:15 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] gepardipoju.livejournal.com
"If you have nothing nice to say, shut the hell up."

THIS.

There are so many people whom need to take this to heart and actually obey it, I've lost count of the number of times I've had my feelings hurt because someone deliberately said something to me that they knew I wouldn't want to hear.


I'm sorry you had to hear/read that from her Lupe :(

Date: 2011-11-14 05:31 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] r-a-blackpaws.livejournal.com
Agreed. I think life would be a bit smoother and less dramatic if people would just follow that axiom a bit more.

Date: 2011-11-15 08:22 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] lupestripe.livejournal.com

Yep but bitchiness is in many people's nature I guess, for a wide range of different reasons.

Date: 2011-11-15 12:55 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] guitar-stitch.livejournal.com
Those that are insecure talk trash to bring others down below their own mentally imposed level. It's a defense mechanism.

Date: 2011-11-15 06:29 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] lupestripe.livejournal.com

Yep that's generally how it works - wish it wasn't so though.

Date: 2011-11-15 08:21 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] lupestripe.livejournal.com

I an lucky that it hasn't happened to me that often although I deliberately surround myself with nice people and don't care what others have to say.

Date: 2011-11-15 08:20 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] lupestripe.livejournal.com

Yep, but I imagine people talk about others behind their back all of the time - it's just when it gets exposed it can be an issue.

Date: 2011-11-14 06:19 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] baloki.livejournal.com
That Lupe is a right gay cheesewheel!

Date: 2011-11-14 06:20 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] baloki.livejournal.com
Opps^_^;;;

Wrong window, didn't mean for you to see that >_>;;;

Date: 2011-11-15 08:18 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] lupestripe.livejournal.com

Very good :P

Date: 2011-11-15 08:18 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] lupestripe.livejournal.com

Lol - gay cheesewheel ^^

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