To Perceive Or Not Perceive...

[lupestripe]

In all honesty, is it obvious that I am gay?

Some people think that it is obvious in my mannerisms yet others tell me that they wouldn't have known unless I had told them.

In the end, I am just me so I am not bothered. I was just interested how I came across lols.

Comments

[lupestripe.livejournal.com]

I don't make assumptions myself, to the point that I don't notice things that to others seem so obvious. I don't really care what people are like provided they are not arseholes. I know it sounds fundamentally basic but it's true. I never judge anyone else on external constraints and always try to find out who they are first. That is why, to me, it really doesn't matter who you are provided you are a great person on the inside.