The Nature Of Submissives

[lupestripe]

Are submissives generally selfless creatures who wish to make others happy, or do they have self-esteem issues that are only alleviated by the opportunity to serve and make their masters happy? I really don't know my own take on it.

(And yep I am being way to psychoanalytical and I know you can't generalise completely - just interested in the psychological mechanisms)

Comments

[lupestripe.livejournal.com]

Lols, that's far too complicated for me man :P

[glennjam.livejournal.com]

<3

[dark-raven-wolf.livejournal.com]

then you just take over and do what you know what gives them pleasure
hit every button on the remote and watch their face

[glennjam.livejournal.com]

Heh, yeah that's lots of fun :3

But I do love it being done to me too <3

[dark-raven-wolf.livejournal.com]

well you should know what works for you....... just tell them in advance what buttons make sounds

i've had some very good subs.. dom over me because I've given them very good instructions before hand on what gets me howling

it may be considered cheating by some.... but it works

[glennjam.livejournal.com]

Well I don't entirely understand myself anyway XD

[dark-raven-wolf.livejournal.com]

then take a 3 day week end..... grab someone and find out...^_^

[glennjam.livejournal.com]

Funnily enough there's not alot of people who will play with me :x

Too many people are mated D=

[dark-raven-wolf.livejournal.com]

Awww... poor thing

it's a pitty your not my type or as a fellow ozzy I'd probably take you up on that.....^_^

[glennjam.livejournal.com]

Not your type? D=

[dark-raven-wolf.livejournal.com]

well not that I have any basis for an opinion of you

but you are male?
I will flirt but but men just are not my thing...^_^

[glennjam.livejournal.com]

But cawk is good! D=

[dark-raven-wolf.livejournal.com]

mmmm... I'm sure it is

but aint much point for me ( and less fun for you) if mine doesn't function on cue.....^_^..... because I can assure you I wouldn't just play with yours all weekend

(now I suppose you could blinfold me..... but.... NAH... to much hassle.. with not speaking and all)

[glennjam.livejournal.com]

Silleh :3 * hugs*